Monday, September 17, 2012

Talking Politics With My Daughters


Yesterday evening, a neighbor girl came over to play with my girls and my niece while we celebrated my mom’s birthday with a few family friends.  During the meal, a couple of my daughters came rushing in and breathlessly proclaimed, “Mom!  Please don’t vote for Mitt Romney!”  I explained that we were in the middle of dinner, and that I would talk to them about it later.

 

Before bed last night, I asked them about the incident.  They told me that the sitter said she had been watching the news and that the news said that Mitt Romney wanted to get rid of “ObamaCare” and he wanted the rich to pay fewer taxes and the poor to pay more taxes.  Lucy explained that when the sitter had had to go to the ER to set a broken bone, it cost a lot of money.  And “ObamaCare” would put 20 cents into a bank account every month so that if the sitter ever had that happen again, her parents wouldn’t have to pay so much money.

 

I took some time after that to talk to them about their concerns on these two issues.  I thought I’d share them here because, sometimes, having things explained in simpler terms makes things much, much clearer.

 

What follows here is what I told my daughters about Mitt Romney and the things they were told about him by the neighbor girl.

 

Girls, I have watched a lot of news reports, and I’ve read a lot about both Mitt Romney and Barack Obama.  Not only do I know what they believe, I know their personal histories—where they were born, what they studied in college, and things like that.  Choosing our next president is a very important decision, and I want to make sure I’m making the best choice possible for my children, grandchildren, and our country.  I don’t like the way our nation’s children are dragged into the presidential campaigns and election.  Children should be included in knowing what is happening (at an age appropriate level), but contrary to what Nickelodeon’s “Kids Pick the President” webpage says, it’s NOT up to kids. (http://www.nick.com/shows/kids-pick-the-president)

 

The first concern that was raised about Mitt Romney is that he wants to get rid of “ObamaCare”.  First of all, health insurance, or any kind of insurance, is money that is paid to a company every month so that if something happens, it will be paid for.  The way it works is that the health insurance company takes my money and bets that I won’t get sick or hurt this month, and I give them money knowing that I could get sick or hurt this month.  Most of the time, I am healthy and safe.  But when I’m not, I go to the doctor and they give me medicine or patch me up, and instead of me paying for it myself, my insurance company pays the bill because I’ve been paying them all along.

 

Even though President Obama’s signature is the one on the health care bill, it’s actually called “The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act”.  I call it the “health care bill” and a bill in this case means a law.  Here are two good things about the health care bill:

 

1.       It allows children to stay on their parents’ insurance until they are 26.  This is a good thing since colleges don’t always have good health care plans, and sometimes after college is over, people have a hard time finding a full-time job or a job that offers insurance.

 

2.       The health care bill makes sure that people who were seriously sick even a long time ago can still get insurance.  This is called a “pre-existing condition” and it usually means cancer or other serious illnesses.  Not colds, broken legs, or stitches.   Before, if a person got a new job, or changed to a different insurance company, the new insurance company could tell someone that because they were very sick a long time ago, the insurance company wouldn’t pay for anything now.

 

Here are two bad things about the health care bill:

 

1.       The health care bill requires people to buy insurance if they don’t have any.  This is wrong because our constitution says that Americans can never be forced to buy anything in order to not get in trouble.

 

2.       The health care bill doesn’t help all Americans to have health insurance.  The latest estimate (that’s a fancy word for guess) for the number of people who still won’t have health insurance is up to 30 million.  That’s a lot of people!  (http://blog.heritage.org/2012/07/24/cbo-obamacare-to-cover-millions-fewer-than-before-supreme-court-decision/)

 

Mitt Romney wants to “get rid” of the health care bill so he can change it—he wants to keep the good things (and make them better), but change the bad things to good things so that it would work for most people.  And write the new law so it costs all of us less money.  He did this in his own state of Massachusetts when he was the governor, which is kind of like being the president of a state.  In Massachusetts, 98.1% of grownups and 99.8% of kids have health insurance.  And it doesn’t cost as much as everyone thought it would.  (http://mittromneycentral.com/resources/romneycare/)

 

The second concern was about Mitt Romney wanting to make the rich pay fewer taxes and the poor pay more.  Mitt Romney doesn’t want the poor to pay more taxes.  He understands that many Americans have lost their jobs, their homes, and other things they used to have.  There are people who aren’t even getting their basic needs (food, shelter, and clothing) met.  He doesn’t expect those people to pay more taxes with money they don’t have.  His plan is to allow companies more freedom and fewer taxes because he knows that companies will hire more workers if they have the money to pay them.  And then those workers will have money to buy what they need from other companies, and then those other companies will be able to hire more workers, and on and on.  (http://www.mittromney.com/sites/default/files/shared/presidentialaccountabilityscorecard_1_1.pdf)

 

Sometimes the news thinks they know what will be best for everyone and so instead of giving the people watching or reading the news all of the facts from both sides, they will give only part of the information or they will put more of their opinion into the story so that it makes one side look better than the other.  This is why it is important to get the news from many places, especially if they are sources who are usually fair and factual—with very few opinions.  This makes it easier to make one’s own decision about things.

 

Also, I want to tell you a little more about Mitt Romney besides what his plans are if we elect him to be our president.  He is married to a very nice and pretty woman named Ann.  They have 5 sons who are now all grown up and have their own families.  So that makes Mitt Romney a grandpa.  Here is a picture of Mitt Romney’s entire family.  (http://www.theblaze.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/romney-family-photo-xmas-600px.jpg)

 

Mitt Romney has also done many nice things for other people and often used his own money.  One time, he visited a hospital for soldiers.  He asked to see the books where the hospital keeps track of the money.  Mitt Romney said that they were doing a good job managing their money.  He asked them if there was anything they needed.  The man who ran the hospital told Mitt Romney that they really needed milk.  They just didn’t get enough and couldn’t afford to get more.  For the next two years, enough milk came every week.  The milkman wouldn’t say who it was from until it was almost time for him to retire.  Then the milkman told the man at the hospital that it was Mitt Romney who paid for the milk out of his own money.

 

There are many other stories like this about Mitt Romney and his family.  The news doesn’t tell these stories, and Mitt Romney doesn’t like to tell them either.  There are 2 scriptures in the Bible that may explain why Mitt Romney and his family give so much to others, but doesn’t share what they’ve done to help.  The first is Matthew 25:40—Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.  This means that when we serve others, we are serving God.  The other scripture is Matthew 6:4—That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.  This means that when we serve others and don’t share or boast about it, God will bless us.  If we make a big show about what we’re doing to help other people, that is the reward we get.  These are lessons I was taught as a child too, and I feel a lot of happiness when I help others in ways that no one else notices.  It gives me a warm feeling, and makes me feel like God is near.  I think the entire Romney family feels the same way.

 

I don’t think President Obama is a bad man.  I think he has done his best with the skills and knowledge he has and has access to.  Sometimes a person’s plans look good and sound good, but they don’t always work when they’re put into place.  I think everyone wants things to get better.  This is why I am voting for Mitt Romney.  After all of the reading and research I have done for myself, Mitt Romney’s beliefs about how to help people get back to work, and how to make America great again most closely match mine, and I want to see how his ideas could work for our country.

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